Aloha Friday #102

October 1, 2009 by Kailani  
Filed under daily life


Welcome to this week’s edition of Aloha Friday.

In Hawaii, Aloha Friday is the day that we take it easy and look forward to the weekend. So I thought that on Fridays I would take it easy on posting, too. Therefore, I’ll ask a simple question for you to answer. Nothing that requires a lengthy response.

If you’d like to participate, just post your own question on your blog and leave your link below. Don’t forget to visit the other participants! It’s a great way to make new bloggy friends!

My question is:

My best blogging advice would be . . .

About the author:
Kailani is the owner and founder of An Island Life. You'll find her sharing her daily life as a mother to 3 wonderful daughters, working as a flight attendant, and living a blessed life in Hawaii.

Comments

62 Responses to “Aloha Friday #102”
  1. Jennifer says:

    Stay true to yourself and blog what you love.
    Jennifer´s last blog ..Autumn Activity-Aloha Friday My ComLuv Profile

  2. Michelle says:

    I’m such a newbie, less than a year, but I guess I’d have to go with Jennifer and say you have to write about things that interest you or you’ll burn out really quick.
    Michelle´s last blog ..Book Review: Magic Tree House Series My ComLuv Profile

  3. I agree with Jennifer. Be yourself and blog about things you care about. Share your true feelings and have fun!

    ♥ Happy Friday! ♥
    Shannon (The Mommy-Files)´s last blog ..Aloha Friday #22 My ComLuv Profile

  4. Kiki says:

    HAVE FUN! blogging is fun for me, and i think that mindset is what keeps me blogging. i am a funny person, i like to make readers laugh, so having a fun time writing, and commenting on other blogs, is a top priority for me. Aloha and take care.
    Kiki´s last blog ..Aloha Friday – Another Adventure My ComLuv Profile

  5. Swoozie says:

    Be who you truly are and blog like you are blogging with your best friends ~~~~~ the rest will come easy……
    Swoozie´s last blog ..Aloha Friday! My ComLuv Profile

  6. Michelle says:

    Always be yourself!

  7. Mrs. Marine says:

    I always write my posts like I am talking to friends and I read all my comments and try to respond back. Mostly just have fun and enjoy blogging, otherwise, why are you doing it?
    Mrs. Marine´s last blog ..Aloha Friday #4 My ComLuv Profile

  8. Becca says:

    Don’t get caught up in blogger drama…and try to blog every day :)
    Becca´s last blog ..Silly Haiku Wednesday – #7 My ComLuv Profile

  9. …to be a good bloggy friend!
    Muthering Heights´s last blog ..From The Mouths Of Babes My ComLuv Profile

  10. Melissa says:

    Try not to overwhelm yourself. Keep blogging fun.
    Melissa´s last blog ..Aloha Friday My ComLuv Profile

  11. be real and honest. try to remember that we all have different opinions, and it’s okay to listen to what others think. don’t be rude or condescending. return the favor of comments with comments of your own on other blogs.

    i guess that’s more than one piece of advice. i guess i’ll stop there =)
    diana/sunshine´s last blog ..happy friday My ComLuv Profile

  12. Kara says:

    Well, since I’m still such a newbie I don’t have anything, but I can’t wait to read what others have to say!
    Kara´s last blog ..Fresh Kitchen Friday 10.2.09: Teaching Our Kids Good Eating Habits My ComLuv Profile

  13. Sues2u2 says:

    Well I’m just starting my “do-over” blog & I’ve gotta admit that I’m liking it better this time around. I think the difference is that I’m not as worried about making sure that I blog everyday. So I guess my advice is to not stress & let the posts come as they will. Just enjoy. (yeah, totally what the others have said but I gotta say it my own way! lol)
    Sues2u2´s last blog ..Aloha Friday My ComLuv Profile

  14. Simply just be you! You’re real to all of us not just a face behind a screen! That’s what keep up coming back over and over:)
    Aloha!
    Niky @ Design It Chic´s last blog ..Aloha Friday!!! My ComLuv Profile

  15. Drahdrah says:

    LOL…. I don’t have any blogging advice. I have no idea what I’m doing here !
    Drahdrah´s last blog .. My ComLuv Profile

  16. Don’t be afraid to take a break and live in the real world! The blogging world will always be there. If you’re afraid that taking a breather from your blog means losing some readers (and I’m sorry, it will), who cares? Your real life needs to be priority, otherwise, where else are you going to get blog material? ;-)
    Jennifer @ It’s A Beauty Filled Life´s last blog ..Top Ten Thursday – Why Emotional Eating Is Okay My ComLuv Profile

  17. Kimberly says:

    Interesting question… My neighbor has started reading my blog and wants to start her own so this topic has been on the brain as of late. What I have been telling her is to just figure out what you like and write about it. Be thoughtful with your posts and network as much as possible. I must admit, I am not a networing guru but I aspire to be one day when I can find the time.
    Kimberly´s last blog ..Aloha Friday – Giveaways My ComLuv Profile

  18. Jen says:

    Great question! I would say stay out of the bloggy drama and never allow your blog become something that stresses you. It should be something fun and that you love to do. Don’t ever compare your self to another blogger! Thats what makes your blog unique is you! Don’t try to be somebody else.
    Jen´s last blog ..Aloha Friday 10/2 My ComLuv Profile

  19. Deborah says:

    Hmmm. I would say share who you are with lots of photos and stories. You will make new friends who share some of the same interests. People will enjoy reading about who you are even if you think it’s nothing. It is!
    Deborah´s last blog ..Welcome to FeedBurner My ComLuv Profile

  20. Blog about the things you like.
    Ave@Made In Canarias´s last blog ..Aloha Friday #12 My ComLuv Profile

  21. It’s your diary. Express yourself as you wish. It should be fun. If it develops into something that makes you pull your hair out, it’s your doing…stop! Re -evaluate.

    And get out and go meet other bloggers. It’s really fun!
    Jamericanspice´s last blog ..Aloha Friday: Fingers dance My ComLuv Profile

  22. OTIN says:

    Write what you want to write and don’t worry about how people will take things!
    OTIN´s last blog ..Happy Hour Friday My ComLuv Profile

  23. I’d have to agree with Jennifer too!
    East Coast Wahine´s last blog ..It’s Aloha Friday #23!! My ComLuv Profile

  24. AuntieE says:

    I think one should stay focus and not ramble all the time. You should love what you are blogging. One more food for thought…Humor is good. The blogging should lift ones spirit in the end of the day.
    AuntieE´s last blog ..Aloha Friday -Yard Decorations My ComLuv Profile

  25. Nina says:

    Don’t worry about how many people come to your blog and just make real friends. In the end those real friendships are so wonderful and make having a blog a really great thing.
    Nina´s last blog ..Leftover Food My ComLuv Profile

  26. pam says:

    Lots of great advice here! I agree, have fun and be true to yourself.
    pam´s last blog ..Aloha! My ComLuv Profile

  27. Be yourself and have fun always. The minute it becomes a chore something is not right.
    TheAngelForever´s last blog ..Hockey game memories My ComLuv Profile

  28. agree be true to yourself and when you feel you need to change things up you probably do!
    Kristen Andrews´s last blog ..Have you started yours yet? My ComLuv Profile

  29. Write about what you know and love.

    Hope things get better at your house!
    Serendipity is Sweet´s last blog ..Friday Photo Flashback My ComLuv Profile

  30. Emilie says:

    Don’t feel obligated to take every opportunity that comes your way and try to blog every day if you can!
    Emilie´s last blog ..Aloha Friday ~ #14 My ComLuv Profile

  31. Make it fun! The more you blog the better you get.
    Pamela M. Kramer @A Renaissance Woman´s last blog ..Freebie Friday – Week 27 My ComLuv Profile

  32. AmyG says:

    Have fun & don’t try to compete with all the bigger blogs. It only takes away the fun. Blog for YOU, not anyone else.

  33. Audrey says:

    Respond to those who post on your blog. I really do get frustrated when I leave comment after comment and the blog owner never takes the time to write me back.
    Audrey´s last blog ..Aloha Friday #18 My ComLuv Profile

  34. Mama Dweeb says:

    Mine has been said – be yourself! Be honest – even if people don’t agree with you the honesty is such a breath of fresh air!
    Mama Dweeb´s last blog ..Aloha Friday! Silly Fear? My ComLuv Profile

  35. angi says:

    to not it take over your live live life first love those around you and the blog will be there when you return
    angi´s last blog ..Aloha Friday My ComLuv Profile

  36. angi says:

    I would say to not it take over your live live life first love those around you and the blog will be there when you return
    angi´s last blog ..Aloha Friday My ComLuv Profile

  37. sagemom says:

    I agree w/a lot of the other comments. Be yourself, and don’t let it run your life.

  38. Jackie says:

    dont let it consume your life :)
    Jackie´s last blog ..Aloha Friday – 10/2 My ComLuv Profile

  39. Megan says:

    Interact with those that take the time to comment and just have fun with it!
    Megan´s last blog ..Aloha Friday: Fall Festivities My ComLuv Profile

  40. Barb says:

    Try not to make posts too long. I love reading blogs but usually have limited time. Long posts usually just get skimmed or even skipped!
    Barb´s last blog ..Aloha Friday 10/2/09 My ComLuv Profile

  41. Shelly says:

    My advice would be to find something that you really like to do (cooking, reading, sports, etc) and make it your theme. Or if you’re like me, you can always mishmash topics. Read lots of other peoples’ blogs for great ideas, but don’t “borrow” other peoples’ work.
    Shelly´s last blog ..Aloha Friday: Comfy Jeans My ComLuv Profile

  42. blueviolet says:

    There has to be a balance between real life and blogging.

  43. Stefany says:

    Be yourself. Don’t change who you are because of your blog.
    Stefany´s last blog ..Aloha Friday: Blog Name My ComLuv Profile

  44. blogging should be fun but don’t let it take over your life, and don’t forget to take measures to protect yourself and the people you are blogging about.
    Charlotte (Life’s a Charm)´s last blog ..Hubby Turns a Year Older, Celebration My ComLuv Profile

  45. Rob says:

    Attend IZEAFest if you are looking to grow your blog. We are at IZEAFest now and I am learning so much already.

  46. Brandi says:

    Not to be afraid of what others think…it’s your blog, and you can post about anything you want! :)
    Brandi´s last blog ..A little late… My ComLuv Profile

  47. pinaymama says:

    don’t spam other blogger and don’t make hurtful and unwanted comments…if you can’t say something good and helpful, just keep it to yourself…
    pinaymama´s last blog ..Aloha Friday: Best Purchase Ever My ComLuv Profile

  48. pinaymama says:

    My advice is:

    Just don’t spam other blogger and don’t make hurtful and unwanted comments…if you can’t say something good and helpful, just keep it to yourself…
    pinaymama´s last blog ..Aloha Friday: Best Purchase Ever My ComLuv Profile

  49. TechyDad says:

    As others have said before, I’d recommend blogging about the topics that you love. Unless you specifically created your blog for a narrow topic range (e.g. Vegetarian Cooking), you should be able to post about multiple subjects as you see fit. And even if you created it with a narrow topic range: You’re the blog creator! You get to say when something is on or off topic! ;-)
    TechyDad´s last blog ..Aloha Friday: Cord Cutting My ComLuv Profile

  50. MacKenzie says:

    Be candid and write what you know!
    MacKenzie´s last blog ..Summer has officially left! My ComLuv Profile

  51. Pamela says:

    Never start.

    (bwaaa ha ha ha ha ha ha)
    Pamela´s last blog ..Fun Monday – Still hot for Starman My ComLuv Profile

  52. LZ says:

    write when you have some you want to say, not because you feel you have to write every day. Take a break when you need it!
    LZ´s last blog ..Wanted: You! My ComLuv Profile

  53. noelle d says:

    As a new blogger, I don’t have any advice… But, I am going to take the advice from all of your comments!
    Have fun and Be true… Like Life ! :)
    noelle d´s last blog ..Aloha Friday #4 My ComLuv Profile

  54. Marie says:

    I am very new to blogging so I don’t know that I have very useful advice but one thing that I have been trying to do is get out and meet other bloggers — that has really helped me feel that I’m actually part of a group of bloggers rather then just by myself :-)
    Marie´s last blog ..Aloha Friday My ComLuv Profile

  55. Sarah B says:

    I am new so I don’t really have any yet, but I am excited to read the other comments.
    Sarah B´s last blog ..4 Years! My ComLuv Profile

  56. JHS says:

    Blog what you feel as you feel it. If you don’t feel like blogging, don’t. Don’t feel pressured to do things that don’t feel right. I’ve hardly touched my blog the past couple of months. Have been busy selecting, buying, and settling into my new house & getting my boys settled in. That’s been my focus, in addition to my professional commitments. I’ll blog more again when I feel like it. It’s a hobby, not a vocation, so I am in charge! :-)
    JHS´s last blog ..Carnival of Family Life: September 2009 “Fall Into Fall” Edition My ComLuv Profile

  57. Irene says:

    Hmmm….try to blog every day. If only I could follow my own advice…..
    Irene´s last blog ..New Charter Giveaway My ComLuv Profile

  58. Don’t worry about it……..and have fun. All your questions will get answered in due time!
    A Frugal Friend´s last blog ..Link Now Working – Free Garnier Fructis My ComLuv Profile

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